We are the human beings who: – allow our dogs/ puppies to poo in front of others houses and don’t look back. Keep on repeating this behaviour as it is not your problem. ‘Bhad me jayepadosi’.
• ‘ we clean our house and put garbage in front of the house which belongs to other 2/3/4 owners as we think my house is clean’bhad me jayepadosi’
• ‘ it’s out of our dignity to cooperate with the Neighbour/s as we feel’ let him/ them go to hell’.
We, humans love staying in Communities as it allows us to interact with each other, and share our thoughts, experiences, happiness & sorrows. This keeps us mentally healthy and happy. Interacting with each other releases pressures of our anxieties and other worries.
In my opinion, nowadays the increasing mental health issues are due to not having people to talk to! Find someone to talk to.
Now if we want to make our community living pleasurable let’s promise:
1- not to do anything which harms our neighbour’s peace of mind.
2- if you are irritated by your neighbour’sbehaviour better talk to him/her before calling QRT. Resolve yourself the issue. It’s not rocket science! I resolved the issue of throwing garbage in front of my house by talking to my neighbour. Thanks to him!
3- your dog, and your maid are in your control. Don’t allow them to do anything which irritates your neighbour. The dog poo problem continues!
4- be assertive but not aggressive. Assertive involves respect for others but aggressive involves humiliation of the other person.
5-Respond not react!
We all are educated, responsible and intelligent humans. Let’s be respectful, cooperative, cheerful and wonderful humans!
“Sabkouppar wale ke pass janahai”! But even then first person you need in case of emergency is your neighbour!
