As kids, we yearned to become a teenager and get the freedom that is generally denied to us. However, this is that testing period which is like a litmus test that all kids need to take!
This crucial period is replete with uncertainties, new paths and transitions that bring along the challenges of mindful choices: be it friends, career or social lifestyle issues!
Many young adults are confused as to what should be their next step in life. Unlike the yesteryears, the youngsters today are inundated with options which land them in a dilemma and immense pressure from all around.
Youngsters try to fit into moulds that they may abhor; social validation is uppermost on their minds; they are unable to handle this newfound freedom. Many struggle as they have never been exposed to taking their own decisions in life; now their parents either compel them to pursue a career path which seems lucrative to them or ask their confused selves to decide!
This may make them stressed and anxious but opens up a wide array of interesting career options and opportunities for growth and self -discovery where they have a choice to earn as well as follow their passion.
Parents and educators must start guiding the teens when they reach middle school. They should make a conscious effort to explore the hidden talents and aptitude of their kids much before they need to choose streams in grade 9.
This timely help and support system will play a significant role in the teenager’s success and happiness, and prevent many from taking the drastic, thoughtless step of suicide, drugs or running away from homes. A group of genuinely good friends is a great support system as friends know their friends like the back of their hands.
A dedicated support system in the form of friends, family and the social circle is crucial for young adults to navigate through this age.
The young adults must not bottle up but be resilient, adaptable, open to communicate, have faith in self, and willing to seek guidance whenever needed. Life is a roller coaster with exciting highs and lows, a suspense novel of which YOU are the protagonist.
