Generation Received Feedback from Various Societies
There is an advertisement featuring Alia Bhatt. It opens with passengers settling in on an aircraft. Alia Bhatt asks a senior citizen, engrossed in conversation with his young son, to vacate her window seat. The man responds by offering her his middle seat elsewhere. When she declines, he loudly and rudely remarks that the young generation is ill-mannered and insensitive. She retorts that she booked the seat well in advance with her hard-earned money and wants to travel comfortably, asking where the question of insensitivity arises.
Are you wondering why Samvada is elaborating on this TV advertisement? It’s because the topic is currently relevant in our sector. Not Alia Bhatt herself, although she is a talented artist, but the issue of senior citizens versus the younger generation. Is it just a TV commercial, or is it a reflection of something deeper?
Last month’s article on bullying of senior citizens by the younger generation received feedback from various societies. Umesh Aggarwal of Apex Athena suggested that AOA should arrange adequate benches in the park for the residents to avoid such fights. Some people have reacted, pointing out that the administrators of Apex Athena temple are senior citizens who often argue with the youth not to touch the idols of the Gods, which can hurt the sentiments of the worshippers. An anonymous call from Maxblis White House suggested that we should write an article on bullying attitude of grandfathers because some senior citizens had been seen severely bullying young boys for playing in the garden area.
So, what’s driving this divide? It seems that differing values and attitudes are at the heart of the issue. The older generation may have distinct beliefs and ways of doing things, leading to conflicting opinions and unsolicited advice. This lack of trust can make senior citizens feel the need to guide the younger generation, often interfering in their daily activities. Generational differences also play a significant role. Differences in technology, culture, and life experiences can lead to misunderstandings and frustrations. Some senior citizens may be concerned about the well-being of the younger generation and intervene to protect them, even when it’s not needed.
Boredom or loneliness can also drive senior citizens to interfere in others’ lives. Additionally, an authoritarian mindset, rooted in their upbringing, may lead them to believe they know best and should control others’ decisions. And, of course, there’s the fear of change – resistance to new ways of working and living.It’s time to bridge this gap! We need to understand each other’s perspectives and find common ground. Senior citizens have wisdom and experience to share, while the younger generation brings fresh ideas and energy.
Let’s create a harmonious community where everyone feels valued and respected. How can we build a better understanding between generations? We want to hear from you! edit@samvada.in
