Raising children is a journey of guidance and learning.
As a parent, we all want our children to respect us as they grow older. Fostering respect is not about demanding it but about setting an example.
When we are constantly lecturing and not taking time to listen to our child’s perspective, it can create a barrier. We must stop comparing them with others. Every child is unique with their own set of strengths and weaknesses. It can lead to lower self-esteem and increased stress for the child. Instead of pushing our child, encourage them.
Setting rules and boundaries is a key part of parenting. Respect their individuality, and they are likely to respect you in return. Children learn more from what they see than what they hear. I think the most important thing we can do to earn respect from our child is to give them space to grow, learn, and value themselves. It helps them become more independent. Children should see you as a role model.
There are few solutions: First, we can set a day once a week for a “Discussion Day” so the child will open up about their views and problems. Another way is to teach them as a game—tell them to write three things they do not like and three things they love. Times have changed now; we must handle our children carefully.
