In recent months, I have observed in Suncity that many people have, sadly, departed for their heavenly abode. Some were elderly, while others were suffering from illness, and some – not so old.
Death is a natural part of life, and we all have our expiration dates. However, every human being has the right to leave this world with dignity, and it is the social responsibility of their loved ones, including us as neighbours, to bid them farewell with respect and love.
You may have noticed that even when the body of an unknown person is being taken to the cremation ground, people on the road stop on the side and wait so that it can pass respectfully.
In our Suncity community, we are often quick to express condolences on WhatsApp with messages like “Om Shanti” (I include myself in this, not blaming anyone, as it’s a good gesture). Our various groups get flooded with these messages. But when the journey of that person begins from their home, do we come out and bid farewell?
I understand that the family may not be known to us, but as neighbours, let’s make an effort to come out and stand together at that time, at least.
Another observation I’ve made is the absence of representation from our Suncity Residents’ Welfare Association (SRWA), which represents all of us (exceptions may exist, of course). This is not to harbour any hard feelings towards our SRWA; rather, it’s an opportunity for us to collectively address this issue.
Let’s take proactive steps to provide dignity and respect to our departed souls. Here are a few thoughts on what we can do:
Let’s try to be present whenever such events occur in our neighbourhood. Even if we don’t personally know the deceased or their family, our presence can offer comfort and support.
We can organize a system within our community to ensure that someone is always available to represent us during such times. This could involve volunteers from different blocks or sectors within Suncity.
It might be beneficial to establish a protocol or guidelines for offering condolences and support to grieving families. This could include practical assistance such as meal deliveries or help with funeral arrangements.
Additionally, we can consider hosting memorial services or gatherings within our community to honour the memories of those who have passed away.
By coming together as a community, we can create a culture of compassion and support that extends beyond our homes. Let’s make an effort to show kindness and empathy towards our neighbours in their times of need, and ensure that every departed soul is bid farewell with the dignity and respect they deserve.”
